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by Spencer Schoeben

We Live Inside A Bubble: Life With Technology vs Life Without Technology

August 24, 2009

It’s hard to realize how isolated your life can be, how different you are than the rest of the world, until you experience what it’s like to live on the other side. It’s nearly impossible to deny that I live, breathe and experience cutting edge technology in my every days life.

Sure. We all know it. The Silicon Valley, the place I call home, is an incredibly atypical community. It’s the home to some of the largest and most influential technology companies in the world. It’s not surprising that people’s lives in this area are vastly different than those of people in the rest of the world.

After spending 12 days away from technology while at Hidden Villa summer camp I have discovered just how fun it can be to live without relying so much on technology in my daily life. There is a whole world out there, waiting to be explored. There are thousands and thousands of species of trees and plants and animals that don’t use an ounce of electricity. There are even people out there that don’t own a computer and their lives seem to be going great.

Inside the bubble, life is so predictable. So boring. So ordinary. So planned. So stressful. I feel pressured to tweet about what I’m doing at all times. I feel obligated to stay up to date and read TechCrunch, Mashable, Engadget, VentureBeat, AllThingsD, The Apple Blog, 9 to 5 Mac… (the list goes on and on.) I feel like my friendships are defined by Facebook. I feel like knowledge of startups and new gadgets equates to importance in life. I feel pressured to always buy the newest things when they come out. I sometimes mistake the internet for the universe and I can’t possibly imagine life without access to the internet.

I have internet wherever I go. I am never disconnected. If I ever have something that I feel like sharing, then, by all means, I can and will share it at that instant. I have internet at my house of course. But, I also have internet on my phone. And I have a 3G connection on my laptop. When I’m connected, I feel like I am inside of a bubble. No matter where I am, no matter what I am doing, everything and everyone that I care about is at my fingertips. It doesn’t matter if I’m sitting at home at my desk or out and about doing my thing. If something happens, I am notified immediately. When Michael Jackson died, I was out at lunch but I knew immediately because I had my iPhone with me. When Billy Mays died, I was in the Grand Cayman on vacation. When Facebook bought FriendFeed I was waiting for my lunch.

When I get up in the morning I go on the internet and read TechCrunch, update my Twitter status and go on Facebook. Whereas, in much of the world, people spend their mornings milking a cow or enjoying breakfast with their family. During school, I continue to update Twitter often discussing what I felt about a test or sharing random thoughts that popped into my head during class. I then will text my friends to find them and meet for lunch. At lunch, I usually scan TechCrunch, go on Facebook and read people tweets.

I feel like I have been living a life that is defined by connectivity. I get the feeling that there is nothing to do when Comcast goes down or AT&T fails once again. I feel like I have to be connected at all times or else…

It’s hard to imagine what life would be like without the kind of constant connections I rely on today. While I most definitely can’t fathom what it would be like to live in an era before the internet, I can’t even picture what it would be like to not have access to your email whenever you need it. For me, knowing stuff makes me tick. I am the kind of person who would say something like “have you heard of Brizzly” and have no one answer me with a yes.

When I was getting ready for camp, I was thinking about how hard it would probably be for me to survive without an internet connection. At first, I couldn’t believe what I had gotten myself into. But then, I realized that I had to make it through the twelve days, it’s not like I was going to literally die because I couldn’t read TechCrunch or update Twitter. So with that attitude I went to camp where I did things like make french fries from potatoes which we picked and I even walked a goat through the woods. All of this without an internet connect.

It turned out okay. Actually, it tuned out amazing. I couldn’t believe that I had done it. I am now back at home where I have the internet once again. But now, I don’t find the internet as amazing as I did before. When I first got home I went strait to my room and grabbed my laptop. I thought there would be so much for me to do. After all, 12 days without internet means a whole lot of Facebook notifications and TechCrunch articles to catchup on. Sure, I was right. A lot had built up while I was gone but I just didn’t care. What I really wanted to do was go outside and have fun in the real world.

Now, when I find myself glued to my computer reading each and every TechCrunch article, I think about how fun it would be to be taking a goat for a walk. I now know just how fun the world that mother nature has created for us can be. The world is filled with billions of people who are living their every day lives just like those 12 days I spent at camp. Billions of people who don’t give a $#!+ that Facebook bought FriendFeed.

So, perhaps the best way to live is in the middle. Technology is something that I am passionate about. There is no use ditching it. I just don’t need to be so addicted. So, next time I see the Fail Whale or AT&T goes down, I don’t have to feel like the world is coming to an end. Maybe it’s just a sign.

As Dr. Carl Sagan once said…

Somewhere, something incredible is waiting to be known.

  • shitman

    This is pretty fucking unoriginal.

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  • netspencer

    You didn't have to read it.

  • elianna

    appreciate your insight as you dissect your own reactions to being a present day plugged in kid and then having the camp outdoor, real world experience.

    You come across as very insightful, despite shitman's comment. he/she is entitled, but I'd prefer to have a conversation with you.

  • justme09

    It is great to hear this realization from a teenager. Balance is important. I'm glad you appreciate that and intend to live both inside and outside that bubble.

  • netspencer

    Dad?

  • lizschoeben

    This is so well written and insightful. what a wonderful young man you are!
    Mom

  • Katie

    so is your language – I agree with Spencer – you didn't have to read it….

  • Katie

    This is incredible Spencer – nice insight. If you need any help finding nature, come get me, I am usually out exploring as well. It has a lot to offer.

  • LAD

    Hi Spencer~
    Great article. I am so glad you had a good time at camp and that it inspired and changed your life.
    Love you,
    Momma Duhnke

  • netspencer

    Okay. Nature is great.

  • netspencer

    Thanks. :)

  • Elizabeth Bowden-Smith

    Spencer,

    Your mother sent this to me. I am so happy that you enjoyed camps so much and that it gave you a new perspective on your life. I am a lot older than you but no less amazed at how Hidden Villa changed my life. I went from being a laboratory research microbiologist to teaching environmental education at HV realizing that being in the natural world and loving it encourages us to know ourselves better, thus taking care of the Earth.

    Your writing is clear and evokes such a strong feeling of the kind of life that tech savvy teens live. One of my big concerns is just what you discovered about yourself. The natural world is all around us and as young children we are actively engaged in it, but when we get into school so many things pull us away, not the least of which is friendships and too much homework. When I work with teens I encourage them to go into nature to do just what you have done – find a new perspective on how one can live life.

    With your permission I would like to pass this site on to my colleagues at HV Camp. We might like to use it in our newsletter. Some time I would like to hear further about your Hidden Villa time.
    I can imagine you as a future camp counselor.

    Be well, my friend, Elizabeth Bowden-Smith

  • netspencer

    Thank you so much. And yes, you have my permission to do what you want
    with it.

  • http://netspencer.com Spencer Schoeben

    Haha. I wrote this story like a month ago and now all the sudden people are commenting on it.

  • http://netspencer.com Spencer Schoeben

    Thanks. Camp was great.

  • LAD

    This is really good:)

    Your cousin,
    Mae

  • Steve Moore

    Simply a wonderful and insightful writing
    Love,
    Your Grandad Moore
    I walked a goat many times on my Uncle Lysle's farm; when I was a young boy

  • netspencer

    Thanks.

    Walking goats is so fun!

  • Steve Moore

    Simply a wonderful and insightful writing
    Love,
    Your Grandad Moore
    I walked a goat several times on my Uncle Lysle’s farm in my younger days

  • jhkh

    interesting

  • netspencer

    Okay. I'm glad you liked it. What's with your name???

  • http://netspencer.com Spencer Schoeben

    Okay. I'm glad you liked it. What's with your name???

  • Yang2

    this should be your college essay…

  • http://netspencer.com Spencer Schoeben

    :)

  • Li-Lynn

    WOW!!! THIS IS AWESOME!!! Can I use it for my english feature article??

  • http://netspencer.com Spencer Schoeben

    Yes you may. Just remember to give credit.

  • Saransh

    hey can we use it for our website of india that is Teens in tech india
    Saransh Sharma

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  • http://twitter.com/imd23 gaston

    WOW, I’m Montevideo-Uruguay and I live 100% the same, so far I don’t “hate” my life just because be connected all the time and with notifications everywhere, I really enjoy it and understand how world works, and it’s not all about tech. 

    I also have been camping since I were born and there was no technology, facebook, twitter, whatever, and was good times and there always will be there and friends that would love camping without tech.

    I agree that it’s a good time to know the balance, on the other hand it’s about progress and the world we’re making. 

  • http://www.facebook.com/redburn22 Dan Thompson

    This is so interesting.. I’ve found that a mix of cutting edge tech and a more minimalist / unburdened life is better than either alone.  I try to avoid all news (instead relying on friends to keep me updated), and only check facebook, email, etc twice per day.  At the same time, I get an enormous amount of value out of the little time I do spend on social media, and apps like Instagram make my day every day…

    Awesome post, Spencer

  • http://netspencer.com Spencer Schoeben

    Thank you. I wrote this like two years ago. I’m glad people like what I wrote. I’m actually in the process of redoing my website and hope to start blogging more.

  • http://www.facebook.com/efrizor Buntu Redempter

    True. I think Internet and Technology are addictive. People who never used a computer don’t care and they feel like they are missing something and when you use, you never go back. but again balance is kinda hard since there is a billion things to do online. so keeping a balance between a real life and an internet and technology life. I live a life without Tech and Internet and I was doing great. but now It is crazy how much I am so involved and can’t quit with Internet and Tech..

  • http://netspencer.com Spencer Schoeben

    I agree with you. Before I started using the computer, I didn’t necessarily think I was missing anything. But once I started using technology, I can’t really turn back and I accept that. Now it’s all about finding ballance.

  • Santosdarocha Gabriel

    how old do you think Spencer Schoeben is?

  • http://netspencer.com Spencer Schoeben

    i wrote this when i was 15. I’m 17 now.

  • http://netspencer.com Spencer Schoeben

    i wrote this when i was 15. I’m 17 now.

  • Rika

    This article is truly amazing. Every single word you wrote had a meaning. It’s been a while since I’ve read something with such insight. I’ve just read it, although this was published years ago :-)  

    I’m 14 now, and very attached to technology as I use it in every single minute. I can never imagine my life without it. It plays a big role in spreading my ideas/ voice etc.. to the whole world.

     However, I think we need to find the thin layer of balance between technology and life. 
    :-)  

  • http://netspencer.com/ Spencer Schoeben

    Thanks for the thoughtful comment! It means a lot to me. :)

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